What plans can you make to ease the burden on your family?
Most people do not and will not discuss their death and/or their funeral arrangements, which creates a void for family who are left with the duty of trying to guess what our beloved deceased wishes may have been.
Below is a list of items you might like to write down somewhere so you family are able to carry out your wishes after you're gone.
- Burial or cremation?
- Church/Chapel or graveside?
- Family only or public service?
- Flowers or donations?
- A formal wake or just family at home?
- What form of permanent memorial should there be?
- Memorials/Headstones - which mason and what design?
If burial where at?
- Which Cemetery?
- New Lawn or General (Monumental) grave?
- Existing Lawn or General (Monumental) grave?
- Memorial Design?
If cremation, where are the ashes going to be stored?
- At home?
- Scattered? Where and/or how?
- Placed in a family grave?
- Cemetery ashes area - rose or rock gardens, columbarium, memorial wall?